LGBTQ Parenthood: Using Donor Eggs and Sperm

    By David Vasquez|May 22nd, 2023

    In the world of reproductive medicine, advances have led to a myriad of options for individuals and couples who dream of becoming parents. For the LGBTQ+ community, these developments have been particularly transformative, enabling opportunities to experience pregnancy, birth, and parenthood in a variety of meaningful ways. Among the available fertility treatments, in vitro fertilization (IVF) with donor eggs and sperm has become a popular choice. 

    The cornerstone of any discussion about LGBTQ+ fertility must be the affirmation that families are built on love, not merely biology. Whether a child is conceived through sexual intercourse, artificial insemination, or IVF, the love of their parents is what makes a family. Using donor eggs or sperm simply adds another dimension to the way that the family is created.

    Understanding IVF with Donor Eggs and Sperm

    IVF is a method of assisted reproductive technology where an egg is fertilized by sperm outside of the body. With donor eggs and sperm, these reproductive cells are sourced either wholly or in part from individuals outside the aspiring parent(s). This can be an excellent option for same-sex couples, transgender individuals, and others who might face biological hurdles in their journey toward parenthood.

    Donor Tissue Explained

    There are a number of reasons why LGBTQ+ individuals and couples might consider using donor eggs or sperm. For instance, cisgender male couples would require both an egg donor and a gestational carrier. On the other hand, cisgender female couples or single women would require donor sperm.

    Transgender individuals also benefit from donor tissue. For instance, a transgender woman (assigned male at birth, identifies and lives as a woman) may choose to use her own sperm (if available and viable) and a donor egg, or a transgender man (assigned female at birth, identifies and lives as a man) might opt to use his own eggs with donor sperm.

    Choosing a Donor

    Choosing a donor is a deeply personal decision and typically involves reviewing detailed profiles of potential donors. Factors such as medical history, physical characteristics, academic achievements, and even hobbies might influence the decision. Some aspiring parents may also prefer a known donor—perhaps a friend or family member—as this may offer a unique sense of connection and continuity.

    As the largest network of donor eggs in North America, MyEggBank®is the preferred partner for sourcing donor eggs. Aspiring parents can set up a profile with their preferences for an egg donor and be notified by email each time a new donor match is available.

    Legal Considerations

    It's crucial for LGBTQ+ individuals and couples to understand the legal landscape surrounding IVF with donor eggs and sperm. Laws vary greatly by location, so consulting with a legal professional familiar with reproductive laws in your area is imperative.

    The Role of Fertility Clinics

    Choosing the right fertility clinic is essential. It's important to find a clinic that is not only medically proficient but also demonstrates understanding, sensitivity, and respect for the diverse needs of the LGBTQ+ community. Fertility experts within The Prelude Network® are welcoming to all people who have a desire to build their modern family regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity,

    To begin your path to parenthood, request a consultation today.